
Invited to view his work, the words of an artist gave me pause. He was already defensive and apologetic. “My art isn’t for everyone,” he said hesitantly.
What I saw was marvelous. But he didn’t know how I would take it. Worried about a negative reaction, he was already making excuses and trying to steel himself for rejection…prepping himself to soften the blow.
Well, sure, not every picture made my mind thrill to the experience, but some of them not only brought up that warm feeling in my chest, and a zing within my brain, but actually had me itching to have more wall space.
When I want to hang a picture, that’s the best compliment I can offer. If I’m reaching for my checkbook, you can figure that you’ve done something I really like, even love.
I see “art by artist” everyday…except when on vacation or hiking in the wilderness (where I see art by Nature, and revel in it). I render verdicts on a weekly, if not daily, basis on whether someone’s art is promotable. And I have an open mind and open vision…mostly. What I cannot abide is apology.
Apology won’t get you through the tough times when all around you dismiss and castigate your vision mostly because they have none themselves. (Listen to that because it’s truth.)
Shyness won’t land you that gallery owner’s confidence, or that agent’s second look and consideration.
Believe in your work, your art, yourself. It’s important.
If you like it, that’s what counts. If you feel proud of the work, revel in the fact that it’s your brilliance there. Remember, not everyone likes everything, and most things catch on, not because everyone who saw it instantly loved what they saw. SOMEONE saw it and instantly loved what they saw, and they told others who looked and saw with fresh eyes…and then told more people who also looked with more open minds.
Your vision — your art — is YOU. And if you can stand there in the privacy of your room, stare at that painting, and find it worthy of your name, so will someone else…and then more somebodies. But not if you shirk and shrink, fading away into the wall as if ashamed.
Don’t apologise. Not ever. Do your art. And show it with pride. All of it that you feel is worthy of your signature. Now there’s a measure you can count on.





